I am the BEST at helping YOU be the best at what YOU do.
PERFORMANCE COACHING
Working with me privately is a transformative experience that changes your perspective, frame of reference, and knowledge of what else is possible. I specialize in helping you identify the self sabotage, limiting beliefs, and imposter syndrome you have had in the relationships to what is most important to you.
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Welcome to Your Transformation
Imagine what your life could look like one year from now
My signature method is a 12-month and results-focsed process bespoke to you that combines strategic life coaching and deep, profound therapy for you to fully transform your self sabotage in the cornerstone areas of your life, with a 100% success rate and a lifetime ROI.
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Client Feedback
“I’ve had business and personal coaches over the years - and they’ve been excellent. But I’ve always felt like there was something deeper that my heart was longing for…and working with Leisse was it."
— Catherine, Lawyer, Colorado
does this sound familiar?
You’ve climbed all the right ladders, checked off all the right boxes, and somehow, life just doesn’t feel how it’s “supposed to.”
You’re an overachiever with an A+ in self sabotage with no one to talk to, who’s done it all and appears to have it all, and you want to stop the gut dropping feeling of ‘is this all there is?’
You’re a big f*cking deal - but you don’t believe it because you constantly get in your head, unable to clearly define what success really means.
Everyone comes to you but you have no one to go to - so now you can’t see your blind spots, which keeps you playing small, chasing because there's never 'enough.'
Nothing feels like enough - and the weight of that makes you feel trapped. Yeah, it looks like you have it all, but you also feel like a prisoner in a life you worked so hard to create, too much of the time.
You are juggling it all under the endless pressure to get it all right, get it all perfect, all of the time. And you don’t see an end in sight doing what you're doing - but also know you can't afford to quit.
You want to just feel grateful for all you have and all you have done, and still…there’s this gut feeling you can’t shake that’s telling you something is missing, and it’s getting harder to keep it all together.
You know there’s more to who you are: there’s a well of untapped and purposeful potential that feels missing between the gap of your net worth and self worth.
You deeply desire to simply BE yourself - in every aspect of your life, and each of the relationships therein - and you can’t quite put your finger on what that is, what that looks like, or what’s next.
You’ve let past experiences, stories, expectations, judgments, and fears hold you back, keeping you stuck and trapped in playing small for too long.
You’ve hit that midlife inflection point of making some critical decisions about how you want to truly live, and you know in your gut it’s time to confront those limiting blocks and beliefs.
You are ready to stand up to your inner critic and the sometimes terrifying internal dialogue that “this is not enough,” you just don’t know how.
You’ve been to therapy and have even tried coaching in the past - but neither has been able to meet you where you are and take you further.
In fact you often end up offering advice to your coach or therapist, leaving you wondering if this is just how life is:
unfulfilling, and stuck in seemingly unbreakable repeating patterns of dissatisfaction.
Working with me privately is a transformative experience that changes your perspective, frame of reference, and knowledge of what else is possible.
I specialize in helping you identify the self sabotage, limiting beliefs, and imposter syndrome you have had in the relationships to what is most important to you.
I am the best at helping you be the best at what you do; lets get you out of your way to get the results you want.
That’s where I come in
CLIENT FEEDBACK
"She dives into the hard stuff and helps you find a way to move freely toward the good stuff.
"I love simplicity. I remember asking, "can it really be this simple?" and her answer with that hearty laugh of hers was, "yes, it can be that simple. Leisse gave me tools that made a notable shift in my life on the first day of our private sessions. She listened, she heard, and downloaded information that I put to use the minute we ended our call. Leisse isn't just sunshine and butterflies. She dives into the hard stuff and helps you find a way to move freely toward the good stuff."
— Jake Juno, Award Winning Musician, Atlanta
MY CLIENTS ARE
Bright / Driven / Accomplished / High Profile / Public-Facing / Empathetic / Compassionate / Integrity-Focused
- Overcome huge transitions and obstacles
- Earned their strength and resilience
- Struggled with perfectionism and codependency
- Battled burnout, overwhelm, and dissatisfaction
- Felt unsure about what comes next, or how to get there
- Done with playing small
- Made for more
- Ready to unleash their fullest potential
- Co-creators of their life
- Wanting the guidance that will take them to their own next level
- Ready to go all in on their investment in themselves
My clients are people who “did everything right” and got to the top, only to be shocked by the realization that it can feel a little lonely and unfulfilling up there. Often they turn around to realize there aren’t many - if any - other humans up there they feel safe or comfortable enough to trust.
Let’s face it - our personal relationships (including most marriages and friendships) are not designed to process and withstand this level of radical self-honesty, unconditional acceptance, intuitive wisdom, and strategic planning.
That’s why people call me
I create a safe and sacred, comfortable and confidential container for you to be seen, heard, cared for, and challenged to go deeper than you’ve gone before, so you can truly embody your own unique expansion.
We work together to create massive clarity, cultivate a deep confidence, embody your courage, and strengthen your connection to your Self
Using my...
- Master level NLP / EFT training
- Master Executive, Mindset, Success, and Organizational Development certifications
- Trauma informed healing modalities
- Inner child and somatic healing
- Tapping
- Creativity
- Ability to make complex things simple
- Breathwork certification
- Finely tuned intuition
- Deep emotional intelligence
- 40+ years of earned wisdom
- Authenticity and integrity
- No BS approach
- Balance
- Success
- Joy
- Fulfillment
- Emotional wealth
- Happiness
In your relationships with your partner, money, children, family of origin, career…and yourself.
CLIENT FEEDBACK
The tools and techniques Leisse used to support my transformation allowed me to let go of years of internalized anger and self-doubt.
"Before working with Leisse, my personal and professional lives were like a never-ending 100-meter dash. The tools and techniques Leisse used to support my transformation allowed me to let go of years of internalized anger and self-doubt. I feel so free of the emotional baggage I had been carrying around for years, which has provided me a clear path to focus on my future; it was truly life-changing."
— Michele, VP Energy Services Toronto
Approach
"The Thing" that happened.
The
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The feelings and emotional impact left behind from "The Thing" that happened.
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Using numbing agents
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(including work, sex, booze, overspending) to disconnect from the feelings and emotional impact left behind from "The Thing" that happened.
The process of genuine reconnecting with ourselves
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to feel and heal from "The Thing" that happened and the emotional impact left behind.
The experience of complete peace and freedom, and contentment.
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my signature Method
Together we become a team, focused entirely on your happiness, well-being, success, and everything else that is important to you, in an actionabaly therapeutic process besoke to you specifically.
The entire purpose is to get you (back) into alignment with what feels good in your soul, and allows you to live the life you were made for.
Click the plus signs below to learn more about each phase of our 3-month intensive coaching experience
We book a complimentary consult call to get a sense of specifically what you’re looking to achieve, and clearly define how I can facilitate that for you in our 3 months together.
This sets the tone for working with me in a safe, trusting, and 100% confidential container to be seen and heard without fear of judgement or repercussion.
First, we:
- Clearly establish your intentions as to what you hope to garner from this transformational experience.
- Define measurable outcomes to use as a metric of your own definition of success
Then, we do a deep dive into your:
- Core values and virtues that define your motivations towards or away from what you truly want at a soul-purpose level
- Limiting decisions and beliefs that have made you feel stuck or otherwise beholden to the past, including trapped emotions and stories surrounding worthiness, shame, success, joy and rest, imposter syndrom and not enough-ness, fear of waiting for the other shoe to drop, and a restlessness to pursue “what next” and stops you from being present in your life
- Relationship and behavior patterns that are operating silently and unknowingly in the background, causing you to unknowingly repeat old and self-sabotaging behaviors in your work, family, and intimate relationships
Lastly, taking all of the clarity and context we learned from the above, we create a vision statement for the next six to twelve months that:
- Aligns with your true strengths, passions, and purpose
- Maps out what your next chapter of life looks like, informed by soulful strategy
- Course corrects the old and outdated “operating system” of patterns and internal programs that used to serve you (think:self-sabotage, imposter syndrome, limiting beliefs and decisions, inner child wounding, codependency, people pleasing, attracting all the wrong kids of dysfunctional people into your life with clearly defined tools and strategies to implement new ones that move you forward in your work, life, and intimacy.
And when we’re done? I send you:
- The full transcription of your Clarity and Context Day
- An easy access PDF containing all the high level takeaways that we use as the scaffolding and framework for the months to come in our work together
- A cal invite to confirm your regular and ongoing two-hour monthly coaching and consultation call with me
*In the twelve month container, we do three of these days, each focusing on a different aspect of your life, for complete reinvention
- Connect twice a month with a 60 - 90 minute Zoom session (booked in advance in a recurring timespot for a lifestyle friendly and easy to schedule block of time)
- Implement the new patterns (behavior / habitual / relationship) we discovered in your Clarity and Context Day in real time, as they pop up and relate to the current climate and context of your work, home, family, social and intimate lives
- Navigate + clear out anything else related to these patterns as they come up in our time together, staying true to your intentions, objectives, and desired outcomes
- Navigate complexities in your relationships
- Consult on interpersonal communication or conflicts, and advise on suggested or alternative response strategies
- Celebrate wins as they happen, no matter how big or small; usually it’s the smallest tweaks that have the highest impact, and it feels great to be able to share those with someone who truly gets the significance therein
This is the time when we look back on your:
- Intentions
- Objectives
- Desired outcomes
And realize that what once felt:
- Out of reach
- Unattainable
- Full of friction and tension
Is now:
- Much smoother
- Peaceful
- Easy
- Realized
- Uniquely yours
- 3 Clarity + Context Breakthrough Days
- 24 bi weekly 60 - 90 minute calls
- Unlimited text / vm / video support in between
This is NOT for you if you are looking for a:
- Quick fix
- Surface level look at your life and lifestyle
- Strictly structured or algorithmic one-size-fits-all approach
Commitment
The
Your 12 Month Transformation Includes:
Investment
The
Time investment
- 3 full-day sessions (once a quarter)
- 24 bi weekly 60 - 90 minute calls
- 12 months of intentional commitment to your transformation, utilizing the resources available (unlimited text/vm/video support in between meetings, and access to the client video library).
Financial investment
FAQs
In short? Yes.
Working with me privately is an investment in yourself, with respect to your energy, time, and financial commitments. When you are ready to go all in on yourself, I am ready to go all in with you, too. That level of shared commitment, rooted in conscious intentions with a focus on long term results while doing the deep work means that I guarantee if you try, you will succeed.
Yes: trust, a vested interest in knowing your potential, and a dedication to take the leap to go all in.
Usually people who work with me privately have done some kind of therapy, coaching, or both before, and have reached the point at which they’re not sure if “it works,” but are willing to give it one more chance. Those tend to be the same people who did not feel appropriately seen or heard last time they hired a coach, and felt like even if it felt good at the time, something still felt missing. The prerequisite to working with me is the unwavering feeling that you were made for more, and you’re willing to do what it takes to unleash that true self, and fulfill your soulful purpose - even if you don’t know what that is, or how.
When you trust yourself to trust me, you can make the informed decision to make the leap at this wild point of your journey.
Integrity is one of my core values and it is the scaffolding of every relationship in my life, both personally and professionally. This is an industry that has, sadly, felt less than full of integrity, and I am working with a handful of other top coaches and thought leaders to bring a culture of trust, truth, and transparency back to what is at its foundation, a service-oriented industry. One of my greatest metrics of success is looking my husband and three daughters in the eye at dinner, and know unequivocally that I have made an impact on someone’s life.
A big rationale behind having the preliminary chemistry call is to give us both a sense if this is a good fit, and specifically for you to evaluate the energy of the interaction. Usually people tell me they don’t know WHY they need to work with me, they just know they need to work with ME. When you trust your gut and go with what feels good, I can promise you that you will get the results you’ve been looking for.
Yes. Together we can discuss the option that serves you best and if you pay in full, I offer a signing bonus in gratitude.
Yes. As a strategic life coach, while we look at you and your life holistically and integrated, much of our work focuses on your work and career path, and all of the work we do has lasting impact on every part of your professional life. Consider this business and executive coaching and consulting, with you as the CEO of your life.
I take on 2 to 3 private clients per year. This allows me to be fully present with you, while allowing me to be fully present with my family as well. I am proud to walk to talk of a healthy work-life blend and balance.
Everything I offer through Leisse Wilcox Consulting is focused on a journey of transformation. While my fall and winter Mastermind groups are focused on growth through sacred community, shared experiences, and ongoing conscious and supportive proof as a vehicle for personal success, private coaching is finely tuned to your specific needs to walk you down the path of specific, intentional transformation unique to you.
Think of it as the relationship between player and coach of the whole team, versus player and quarterback coach who focuses on the minute details of performance.
Both are excellent, and my business is structured to support clients on their journey in one, two, or all three options as it aligns for them.
CLIENT FEEDBACK
"Working with Leisse is one of the best investments I've ever made.
Before our work together I felt that I had hit a plateau in my self-develpoment: I had the awareness that past patterns and behaviours were no longer serving me, but I had no idea how to move forward. Our work was transformative: I loved that there were actionable steps to help me interrupt old patterns so I could make them - not just talk about them. Leisse is the true definition of a guide: she meets you exactly where you are and provides such a safe and judgemnt-free space for you to heal."
—Jocelyn, Brand Strategist, Toronto
I will leave you with this:
When you are ready to go all in on your life, I am ready to go there with you and make the whole thing easier — and a lot more fun.
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