I am the BEST at helping YOU be the best at what YOU do.

PERFORMANCE COACHING

I specialize in helping you identify the self sabotage, limiting beliefs, and imposter syndrome you have had in the relationships to what is most important to you. Working with me privately is a transformative experience that changes your:
  • perspective
  • communication
  • perception of what is possible

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is this right for you

This is for you if you are...

  • tired of living inauthentically
  • ready to live a more balanced and meaningful life
  • open to new perspectives
  • willing to do the inner / outer work 
  • ready for results
  • ready to level up your communication skiils
  • feeling trapped
  • used to be the smartest one in the room

  • proactively figuring out what you what
  • an overachiever with perfectionist tendencies
  • worried nothing is enough
  • at the top of your game and have no one to talk to
  • self sabotaging 
  • ready to get our of your own way
  • committed to your personal and professional growth

Client Feedback

“I’ve had business and personal coaches over the years - and they’ve been excellent. But I’ve always felt like there was something deeper that my heart was longing for…and working with Leisse was it."

— Catherine, Lawyer, Colorado

does this sound familiar?

You’ve climbed all the right ladders, checked off all the right boxes, and somehow, life just doesn’t feel how it’s “supposed to.”

You’re an overachiever with an A+ in self sabotage with no one to talk to, who’s done it all and appears to have it all, and you want to stop the gut dropping feeling of ‘is this all there is?’

You’re a big f*cking deal - but you don’t believe it because you constantly get in your head, unable to clearly define what success really means.

Everyone comes to you but you have no one to go to - so now you can’t see your blind spots, which keeps you playing small, chasing  because there's never 'enough.' 

Nothing feels like enough - and the weight of that makes you feel trapped. Yeah, it looks like you have it all, but you also feel like a prisoner in a life you worked so hard to create, too much of the time.

You are juggling it all under the endless pressure to get it all right, get it all perfect, all of the time. And you don’t see an end in sight doing what you're doing - but also know you can't afford to quit.

You want to just feel grateful for all you have and all you have done, and still…there’s this gut feeling you can’t shake that’s telling you something is missing, and it’s getting harder to keep it all together. 

You know there’s more to who you are: there’s a well of untapped and purposeful potential that feels missing between the gap of your net worth and self worth.

You deeply desire to simply BE yourself
- in every aspect of your life, and each of the relationships therein - and you can’t quite put your finger on what that is, what that looks like, or what’s next. 

You’ve let past experiences, stories, expectations, judgments, and fears hold you back, keeping you stuck and trapped in playing small for too long.

You’ve hit that midlife inflection point of making some critical decisions about how you want to truly live, and you know in your gut it’s time to confront those limiting blocks and beliefs. 

You are ready to stand up to your inner critic and the sometimes terrifying internal dialogue that “this is not enough,” you just don’t know how.

You’ve been to therapy and have even tried coaching in the past - but neither has been able to meet you where you are and take you further.

In fact you often end up offering advice to your coach or therapist, leaving you wondering if this is just how life is:

unfulfilling, and stuck in seemingly unbreakable repeating patterns of dissatisfaction.

Working with me privately is a transformative experience that changes your perspective, frame of reference, and knowledge of what else is possible.

I specialize in helping you identify the blind spots (self sabotage, limiting beliefs, imposter syndrome) you have had in life's cornerstone areas, and get you out of your own way to get results.

I am the best at helping you be the best at what you do; lets get you out of your way to get the results you want.

imagine feeling like

CLIENT FEEDBACK

"She dives into the hard stuff and helps you find a way to move freely toward the good stuff.

"I love simplicity. I remember asking, "can it really be this simple?" and her answer with that hearty laugh of hers was, "yes, it can be that simple. Leisse gave me tools that made a notable shift in my life on the first day of our private sessions. She listened, she heard, and downloaded information that I put to use the minute we ended our call. Leisse isn't just sunshine and butterflies. She dives into the hard stuff and helps you find a way to move freely toward the good stuff."

— Jake Juno, Award Winning Musician, Atlanta

MY CLIENTS ARE

Bright / Driven / Accomplished / High Profile / Public-Facing / Empathetic / Compassionate / Integrity-Focused



My clients are executives and entrepreneurs who...

  • “Did everything right” and got to the top
  • Feel a little lonely and unfulfilling up there
  • Struggled with perfectionism and overachieving
  • Battled burnout, overwhelm, and dissatisfaction
  • Felt unsure about what comes next, or how to get there
And my clients know that they are...

  • Ambitious in the pursuit of living life on their terms
  • Done with playing small
  • Made for more
  • Ready to unleash their fullest potential
  • Wanting the guidance that will take them to their own next level
  • Ready to go all in on their investment in themselves




That’s why people call me

I create a safe and sacred, comfortable and confidential container for you to be seen, heard, cared for, and challenged to go deeper than you’ve gone before, so you can truly embody your own unique expansion.

We develop your emotional intelligence, strengthen your self-awareness, hone your communication skills, and fill up your tool belt with a plethora of actionable tools to help navigate this giant curve ball called life.
We work together to create:
  • Clarity in what you want
  • Confidence in who you are
  • Courage to stay true to both

Using my...

  • Master Level NLP, Mindset, and Success Coaching Certifications
  • Organizational Development and Executive Coaching Certifications
  • Trauma informed healing modalities
  • Creativity 
  • Ability to make complex things simple
  • Breathwork certification
  • Finely tuned intuition
  • Deep emotional intelligence
  • 40+ years of earned wisdom
  • Authenticity and integrity 
  • No BS approach
...we identify and change the limiting beliefs, emotional blocks, and self-sabotaging patterns that have prevented you from achieving what it is you say you want:

  • Balance
  • Success
  • Joy
  • Fulfillment
  • Happiness
  • Freedom

In your relationships with your partner, money, children, family of origin, career…and yourself.

CLIENT FEEDBACK

The tools and techniques Leisse used to support my transformation allowed me to let go of years of internalized anger and self-doubt.

"Before working with Leisse, my personal and professional lives were like a never-ending 100-meter dash. The tools and techniques Leisse used to support my transformation allowed me to let go of years of internalized anger and self-doubt. I feel so free of the emotional baggage I had been carrying around for years, which has provided me a clear path to focus on my future; it was truly life-changing." 

— Michele, VP Energy Services Toronto

Approach

My approach is based on these five phases of our lives:

"The Thing" that happened.

The

01

The feelings and emotional impact left behind from "The Thing" that happened.

02

Using numbing agents

03

(including overdoing it on work, sex, booze, food, spending) to disconnect from the feelings and emotional impact left behind from "The Thing" that happened.

The process of genuine reconnecting with ourselves

04

to feel and heal from "The Thing" that happened and the emotional impact left behind.

The experience of complete peace and freedom, and contentment.

05

All in a container that makes you feel seen, validated, supported, and
ready to take inspired action.

my signature Method

Let’s face it - our personal relationships (including most marriages and friendships) are not designed to process a high level of radical self-honesty, unconditional acceptance, intuitive wisdom, and strategic planning.

In our work together, we go all in: 
  • Outlook on abundance and the fallacy of “the struggle”
  • Relationship to money and hard work
  • Addiction to / codependency with work
  • Coping mechanisms for trying to do it all right, right now
  • Blind spots that lead to accidental self-sabotage
  • Balancing the intense demands of raising a family and a career at the same - unable to fail at both
  • Clarity on what brings YOU fulfillment

Click the plus signs below to learn more about each phase of our 3-month intensive coaching experience

First we get a sense of what specifically you’re looking to achieve, and clearly define how I can facilitate that for you in our 3 months together. This sets the tone for working with me in a safe, trusting, and 100% confidential container to be seen and heard without fear of judgement or repercussion.

Then I send you a proposal (putting our plan into something you can see and hold), and payment link. 

When you confirm with payment (plans are available), I'll send a cal invite to confirm your ongoing 90-minute weekly 1:1 session.

Step 02 / Clarity + Context

For our first two sessions (all are done on Zoom; I do not offer in-person 1:1 sessions) we get the context of where you’re coming from, where you are, and where you’d like to be.

First, we:
  • Clearly establish your intentions as to what you hope to garner from this experience. 
  • Define measurable outcomes to use as a metric of your own definition of success

Then, we
do a deep dive into your:
  • Core values and virtues that define your motivations towards or away from what you want 
  • Blind spots to understand the limiting decisions and beliefs that have made you feel stuck or otherwise beholden to the past (stories of worthiness, shame, success, joy and rest, imposter syndrome and not enough-ness, fear of waiting for the other shoe to drop, and a restlessness to pursue “what next” and stops you from being present in your life - all that "fun" stuff)
  • Money story that is operating quietly in the background, causing you to unconsciously repeat old and self-sabotaging behaviors in your work, family, health, partnerships, and success



Step 03 / Confidence + Courage: Private Coaching and Consultation Calls

In the months that follow, we connect weekly with a 90 minute session (booked in advance at a recurring time for a lifestyle-friendly and easy to schedule block of time) based in the 3R's:

REALIZE
:
What it is:  We uncover and understand the unconscious patterns and behaviors holding you back in your work and leadership roles.

Why we do it: To identify and diagnose the blocks and defences that trip you up, and understand their origins and purposes.

How it helps: Recognizing patterns allows you to break free from them, paving the way for greater self-awareness and improved professional relationships.

REALIGN:
What it is:  We shift your perspective and start seeing challenges as opportunities for growth.

Why we do it: To dial up the emotional intelligence (healthy self-regulation, self-esteem, and relational skills, transforming how you interact with and perceive your professional environment).

How it helps: This shift allows you to manage stress more effectively, make conscious decisions, and create harmony in your professional relationships.

RECOMMIT:
What it is: We help you you solidify new, mindful practices in your leadership and professional relationships with actionable and practical tools.

Why we do it: To ground you in authentic, emotionally intelligent leadership (of yourself and others), focusing on communication and practical outcomes.

How it helps: Maintain harmony, repair disruptions, and lead with greater confidence and effectiveness.

Step 04 / Communication + Compassion: Support Between Calls

1:1 coaching is a premium service; in our time together you have me on retainer in between calls to:

  • Celebrate wins as they happen, no matter how big or small; usually it’s the smallest tweaks that have the highest impact, and it feels great to be able to share those with someone who truly gets the significance therein
  • Navigate complexities and nuances in your personal and professional relationships
  • Consult on interpersonal communication or conflicts, and advise on suggested or alternative response strategies

Step 05 / Resolution and Completion: Body Tingling Bliss

Don’t worry - you get used to it ; )

This is the time when we look back on your:
  • Intentions
  • Objectives
  • Desired outcomes

And realize that what once felt:
  • Out of reach
  • Unattainable
  • Full of friction and tension 

Is now:
  • Much smoother
  • Peaceful
  • Easy
  • Realized
  • Uniquely yours

Step 05 / Resolution and Completion: Body Tingling Bliss

  • One full quarter of 1:1 support
  • 12 weekly 90 minute calls
  •  Unlimited text / vm / video support in between

The only prerequisite to working with me? 

The unwavering feeling that you were made for more, and the willingness go all in to unleash the best version of yourself.

This is NOT for you if you are looking for a:

  • Quick fix
  • Reason to not follow through...again
  • Way to stay the same with your go-to excuses 

Commitment

If it were easy, everyone would do it. Working with me one-to-one is a 3- month commitment to yourself. When you sign on to work with me, you are committing to your own personal and professional growth.

The

Your 3-Month Intensive Includes:

Investment

Working with me is an investment in your self, family, mental health & emotional well-being, business, partnership, and success. 

When you are ready to go all in on yourself, I am ready to go all in with you, too. 

The

Time investment

As a mom of three teens, I am a passionate work-life balance advocate, and this is not designed to add more to your plate.

With VERY few exceptions, the work we do is contained in our sessions, which are booked as a recurring appointment for scheduling ease.

Financial investment

You can download my Pricing + Service Guide here for the specific financial investment to work with me.

When you are ready, have coffee with me to ensure we are a good fit for each other.

FAQs

You have questions, I have answers. Click the plus signs below to see my answers to frequently asked questions.

Is there a guarantee?

In short? Yes. 

I don't know about you, but I have been burned in the past by coaches who were fantastic marketers - but fell as short as Danny De Vito when it came to delivering results. It is an awful feeling, and fuels me to ensure my clients are happy with our work, contract commitments, and results.

When you are ready to go all in on yourself, I am ready to go all in with you, too. That level of shared commitment, rooted in honest intentions with a focus on long term results  means that I guarantee if you try, you will succeed.

And if not? I'll coach you until you do.

Are there any prerequisites? 

The prerequisite to working with me is the unwavering feeling that you were made for more, with the willingness go all in to unleash the best version of yourself.

Usually people who work with me privately have done some kind of therapy, coaching, or both before, and have reached the point at which they’re not sure if “it works,” but are willing to give it one more chance.

Those tend to be the same people who did not feel appropriately seen or heard last time they hired a coach, and felt like even if it felt good at the time, something still felt missing. 

I'm sorry you had that experience - I've had it too, which has FUELLED me to make sure you get results.

How do I know I can trust you?

Integrity is one of my core values and it is the scaffolding of every relationship in my life, both personally and professionally:

My greatest metric of success is sitting around the dinner table at night with my three daughters, looking them in the eye, and knowing I have made an impact.

This is an industry that has, sadly, felt less than full of integrity, and I am actively working with a handful of other top coaches and thought leaders to bring a culture of trust, truth, and transparency back to what is at its foundation, a service-oriented industry. 

The rationale behind having our coffee consult is to give us both a sense if this is a good fit, like a vibe check. Usually people tell me they don’t know WHY they need to work with me, they just know they need to work with ME. When you trust your gut and go with what feels good, I can promise you that you will get the results you’ve been looking for.

When you trust yourself to trust me, you can make the best-informed decision.

Do you offer a payment plan?

Can I expense this?

You bet. Both entrepreneurs and executives are able to run our 3 months together through the business as an education and training expense.

How many clients do you work with at a time?

I take on 2 to 3 private clients at a time. This allows me to be fully present with you, while allowing me to be fully present with my family as well. I am proud to walk to talk of a healthy work-life blend and balance.

How is this different from your group program? 

Everything I offer through Leisse Wilcox Consulting is focused on a journey of transformation.

While my group programs are focused on individual growth in the presence of sacred community, shared experiences, and ongoing supportive peers, private coaching is finely tuned to your specific needs to walk you down the path of specific, intentional transformation unique to you.

Think of it as the relationship between player and coach of the whole team, versus player and quarterback coach who focuses on the minute details of performance.

Both are excellent, and my business is structured to support clients on their journey in one, two, or all three options as it aligns for them.

CLIENT FEEDBACK

"Working with Leisse is one of the best investments I've ever made. 

Before our work together I felt that I had hit a plateau in my self-develpoment: I had the awareness that past patterns and behaviours were no longer serving me, but I had no idea how to move forward. Our work was transformative: I loved that there were actionable steps to help me interrupt old patterns so I could make them - not just talk about them. Leisse is the true definition of a guide: she meets you exactly where you are and provides such a safe and judgemnt-free space for you to heal."

—Jocelyn, Brand Strategist, Toronto

are you ready for it?

When you are ready to go all in on your life, I am ready to go there with you and make the whole thing easier — and a lot more fun.

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